Wednesday, March 30, 2016

Hospice

Just before we flew out on for our vacation on February 29th Karen had an appointment with her oncologist in which he recommended stopping the intravenous chemo medications due to the side effects.  He gave the option of using a pill that she would be on for three weeks and then off for a week.  We were given the drug fact sheet which Karen and I were able to read on the plane.

The Thursday after we got back from our trip Karen went in for a PET scan which was reviewed with the oncologist the following Monday, March 14th.  The summary said there was significant progression of the disease.  The doctor also let us know one of the side effects of the pill might accelerate/cause liver failure which we have been keeping a close eye on.  Given this news we have decided not to pursue any more treatments.  As of 28 March 2016 Karen is on hospice care.  She is still at home but this opens up more options for managing her pain and making her more comfortable.  It has not been an easy few weeks but we are trying to focus on making the most of what we have right now.




Braden

8 comments:

  1. I am very sorry to hear this. I know that God is with you in those hard decisions. Chemo is difficult and causes many other troubles. I pray for you to have peace and love together and enjoy Karen as much as possible. She sure is a light and always has been a kind woman. My prayers are with you!

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  2. I wish I had a miracle in my pocket and it would be sent to Karen. I would give my life for her if it was possible. Please give her a gentle hug and tell her I love her and will never forget that day at your home we were at the piano and she was singing. We love you, Garry and Kay

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  3. We appreciate your thoughts and prayers. One of the hardest things for me to think about is that James and Rebecca won't be able to see their mom during those big life moments. I know she will be there for them.

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  4. I am so sorry for this development. I see in these pictures more than just smiles -- I see a light in your children and in Karen, and I hope that as your children grow they will always associate brightness and warmth with the way they feel around their mother now. I am praying for all of you. Jenni (Katrina's friend)

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  5. Braden...would you do me a special favor? Would you give my sweet friend Karen a gentle kiss on her cheek for me? Tell her I'll always remember our little talks, our times at your home watching the children while she slept and the very best time when we were sitting at the piano making that tape for you of her singing. I'll treasure that.

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    1. I passed it along to her. Thank you so much for all of your help with James, Rebecca, and Karen.

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